Technique: Butterfly Kiss
I normally use the Butterfly Kiss in the basic, lazy way: lying on my back, grinding and holding it with one hand. The middle setting is enough to get me off, but, like I said in my review, the highest setting is like magic. I thought it was too intense at first and didn’t bother to use it for weeks after I bought the toy. But then one wonderful night, I was in the right mood to kick it up a notch. The highest setting feels like — it’s sort of — it’s like…. One customer reviewer on the Babeland page said that it feels like sucking and I’ll agree because I honestly don’t know how else to describe it. By the time I turn it up, I’m usually in the throes of ecstasy or what have you, so I’m not really clear on what happens. I’ll say that it feels like some sort of sucking and pumping action is going on and it is so, so good. When I’m feeling impatient, as I often am, I’ll go from medium to high after a few minutes and end up coming not long after that.
My other favorite way to use the Butterfly Kiss is more labor intensive. I’ll put a few pillows or big sweaters in a pile and straddle them. The base of the vibrating Butterfly Kiss is nestled in the little pile, then I squeeze the whole thing together with my knees to keep it in place. Voila! Instant cowgirl apparatus. This technique is likely a surprise to zero people, but I felt like such a pioneer when I first discovered it. This is the only way I’ve found to get pleasure from thrusting with the Butterfly Kiss. It’s a little DIY and a little loud (or at least I am), so I don’t do this one often. When I do work up the motivation to do it, it feels exhilarating.
